Third base is oral and a home run is well, doing the deed.Using a sports metaphor to measure sexual progress might make things easy for teens, particularly boys looking to impress peers with how "far" they got with the girl next door. But the need to measure sexual progress is itself a troubling impulse, one that reflects the misguided way we approach sex as an intimate act.
Keep in mind that sexual activity doesn’t just have to be about how far you can get with someone."It is helpful to imagine sex as a journey," blogger Clarisse Thorn wrote."It helps to focus on having fun throughout, instead of doing what it takes to reach the 'goal' of orgasm.Could you tell me what the bases are for girls and guys? While there's no "official" definition of what the bases represent, there seems to be a general understanding of each base: Remember, Wondering, these can vary among different people, so don't be embarrassed to ask your friends exactly what they mean when they talk about the different bases — you may find that you aren't the only one who needs some clarification on both the bases and the definition of sex.It's great that you want to be informed and asking is the best way to find out.