We all introduced ourselves and talked about our specialty areas. Sure, not all the men you contact will reply, but that's normal.I told them about my books, including my latest one, . I know — you've heard a hundred times that men should make the first move. They may be busy, seeing other girls, or you're just not their type.
Or maybe why don't you contact some women based on their profiles and see what happens. hmmm well after reading your profile there isn't anything that sticks out that screams I love crazy women..... they're looking for a badboy and actually get a teddy bear? I would take a guess something in your profile is attracting them. Indeed, in typical dating situations, many women prefer that men take the initiative.This perspective is quite common, and may be right for you when dating in person. Warren, As a woman I feel a little strange about making the first move, and yet I see matches I would really like to begin exchanging messages with.If I initiate communication with them, will I come across as not much of a challenge?